Here’s my favorite advice about love and wondering if someone is *the* one. Wish I could remember where I got it from.
1) What if this person never changes?
2) What if I had a child exactly like this person?
3) What if I become more like this person?
This really says it all. Not only it it great advice for those who are discerning marriage, but it is also a good confirmation for those of us who are already married.